5 Tips For A Successful Relationship

The word Relationship might make someone smile from ear to ear and might be a taboo for the next. Even though we have for types of relationships:

1. Family Relationships
2. Friendships
3. Acquaintanceship
4. Romantic Relationship

Not all of these relationships are perfect and we ruin them more when we try to make them so.

The romantic relationship is the hardest if you are not in a relationship you are the one being set up on blind dates or having a hard time even in the family circle for not being in one and if you are in a relationship then you have endless questions, problems for which you are ringing your friend for advice or consoling either ways its difficult.

The main problem is whenever we start a relationship we have that "happy ending" scene pasted in the back of our heads due to movies and dramas that portray that a relationship is going to be happy no matter what happens along the way. Sadly that is bulls***.




Nothing has a happy ending if we see a happy couple married or not, it is not because they are rich or famous it is because they work on their problems and are mature enough to understand their other half.

5 WAYS TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP.

Relationship goals something that you work on together not matching shirts, mugs, etc. That is cute but it gets worn out especially for the guys. Here are 5 ways to work on together to make a relationship last till 'I do'.

1. Maturity: 

   You mature as you experience, keep in mind some experiences are based on observations and not practical experience. You pick up things that make you understand and give you a much bigger picture. The more calm and collected you are the stronger the relationship will be. Jumping into a relationship in your teens sounds cute but it wears you down from all the drama that comes along with it. Boys usually run to older women why? it is because older women can handle themselves and their partner as well as clear up things more maturely. So maturity is the key to say you can handle yourself and your relationship.

2. Acceptance & Trust:

Two things that are difficult to attain at certain parts in our lives, we have seen a mess of relationships, arguments, etc so much that these two things are not easily adjusted in our systems regardless of the gender. If you are mature enough then these two things follow up very easily. Acceptance is for all the flaws that our other half posses and if that person is bold enough to share or show their flaws then you should be bold enough to accept your partner with it and try not to dream of changing your partner into that perfect someone. When there is acceptance the change in a person's personality and appearance comes along naturally. No pressure no force.

Trust runs both ways and it is a path where you have to keep your eyes closed and let the other person lead the way. And if something goes wrong all of us are blessed with a sixth sense that kicks right in.

3. Communication & Compromise: 

Communication is the key to a successful relationship. The more you communicate the better your relationship gets, talking it all out even when you don't have anything specific, asking 'How was your day?' can make a difference without anyone ever knowing. If there are suspicions, doubts, etc talk them out. Most of the time it is our paranoia that ruins are relationship with our better half.

Compromization has a huge role in our romantic relationships. We can not be 'Always my way' person there will be times where you have to compromise and when you do that your partner will compromise too. It is not a drawback to compromise for your loved one but just keep in mind you are not taken for granted you must be that mature to see your way through some situations.

4. Intimacy:

Often intimacy is confused with sex but that is not the case. Intimacy is the closeness and level of comfort in talking with your partner without stripping your clothes off. Intimacy can be emotional, spiritual, and mental. A conversation where neither of you is shy or hiding something that is intimacy.

5. Intimate:

The part which none of us can't wait for and we count down the days to 'when can we have sex?'. This is the most needed part of a relationship but if you have intimacy with your partner then your intimate life will have countless stars. Being intimate with each other brings us closer and you feel more secure with each other than with anyone else. Being intimate with your partner should make you feel solace, comfort, and put the rest of the world far behind. Sure all of us have stressful days but when you have a well-worked relationship you will crave stressful days just to have your joy all around.

Not every relationship is perfect, everyone is different and everyone needs time to change and adjust. Cling, cute, paranoid partners are cute but they get worn out when a person wants to settle down. Unknowingly our brain does want the orthodox version of a married life regardless of what year it is. Just keep that in mind and you will have a new picture to life.